This is some gestures that I learned by talking to people who loves their Mom so much. The questions is simple "Why do you love your Mom so much?" and they told me that their Mom do this to them and they feel loved. Let's learn things they Mom do to make them feel the love. So we can do this to our kids!
She is smiling at me even if we just happen to meet randomly at the house.
She says "I love you" and gives me hugs
She prepares my meals with care
She talks with me at breakfast, lunch, or dinner, we are having conversations
She drops and picks me up at school
She talks with me on the way from our house to school
We are playing games together at night
She reads me bedtime stories every night
Mom sleeps beside me occasionally
She always try her best to do things I love together on weekends
She keeps promises
She never missed my special events
She praises me when I do good things
She gently advises me when I make mistakes
We go on one-on-one dates regularly (this is key!)
I'm sure we don’t need to do it all.
Just a few quality moments each day, consistently.
When we give our full attention—no phone, no distractions—and do something they love outside the home, magic happens. We get to know their favorite snacks, colors, school stories. That’s how deep bonds are built.
Not every day will be perfect. But if we manage even 3–4 of these moments daily with full presence—open conversation, no devices, two-way connection—that’s already powerful.